I am so irritated.
I have never been insulted at a catholic mass before.
This priest just made the claim that women are treated the best, better than men, in the Bible.
He proceeded to tell the congregation that women are incapable of planning, (he pointedly says mothers are unable to do so), that men study philosophy because they understand math and the abstract, while women only study psychology when they have their emotions invested in it. He also said that a woman NEEDS a man to BALANCE her emotions - once again directed at the mother father relationship!
I have also never walked put of a service before, regardless of whether or not I believe, because I attend with my very catholic family. Even MY mother had a disgusted look on her face.
And I was having such a good day…
…and then you got a reality check on your female privilege for father’s day.
Boo Fucking Hoo.
what’s with this weird thought process
with lower middle class and impoverished dudes* thinking that when they say sexist and racist shit and make get back in the kitchen jokes they are somehow edgy and cool and fighting the power
NO YOU ARE LITERALLY REINFORCING THE RICH WHITE DUDES’ STATUS QUO AND AGENDA
like u r literally upholding people that keep you down
if u pretend to like it it wont get better
man FUCK UP SOME SHIT and re-examine your world.
*they aren’t the only ones, but i am thinking of a specific type of dude, that i don’t have a name for that often talks about being edgy, and different, they are usually grown up punk rockers and metalheads and people who weren’t into popular shit and liked to say things like “nonconformist”
YOU ARE LITERALLY REINFORCING THE RICH WHITE DUDES’ STATUS QUO AND AGENDA… When you date them, have kids with them, or worse… cheat with them on their “significant” others.
You abuse lower middle class and impoverished dudes by ignoring inconvenient facts like they are 3x more likely to DIE in any given situation, while rewarding the class of people you claim to hate the oppression of.
Who is REALLY doing more damange to the Status Quo?
11 Signs You’re A Misandrist.
11 Signs You’re A
1. You think no woman should be called a slut, but you’re all for and maybe even participate in slutwalks.
2.You want to ban pornography because it objectifies women but own a copy of “50 Shades of Grey.”
3.You demand men take ownership of their lives and whilst simultaneously blaming all your problems on the “patriarchy.”
4.You claim feminism cares about men’ problems too,but false rape accusations are irrelevant because you still believe 1 in 4 women will be raped in their lifetime.
5.You shame men for shaming other men who don’t agree with MRA issues but any woman who does not support feminism is automatically a “gender traitor” and “rape apologist.”
6.You believe men only think men become feminists is to get laid,but also that the only reason we tolerate female MRA’s is because we want to have sex with them.
7.You say things like “If you’re not a feminist,you’re a bigot.” Yet also say things like “Women have every right to hate men.”
8.You constantly tell men to “check their privilege” and that male privilege exists but most men can’t see it,yet refuse to acknowledge female privilege because……you can’t see it.
9.You find the idea of genital mutilation of a man being joked about on live television hysterically funny,but claim misandry doesn’t exist.
10. You assert that women are strong, independent, capable, never helpless or naive, yet it is society’s/men’s fault that women succumb to pressure in regards to beauty standards and other forms of peer pressure, implying that women are not possibly smart enough or strong enough to make healthy, intelligent decisions for themselves.
11. You claim that feminism accepts a woman’s choice to become a wife/mother/stay-at-home mom, and that feminism is fighting for a woman’s right to CHOOSE, yet you shame females who reject feminism by calling them ‘baby makers’ and ‘sex slaves’.
today in MRA land…
some little boy got his fee fees hurt and in response attempted to shut me up by threatening me via proving he had my ~personal information!~
because misogyny isn’t real
because men getting mad and reacting like this is totally acceptable
because women just need to shut up and never voice their opinions ever and if we do we need to be threatened
Oh. So he treated you EQUALLY to an MRA.
Boo Fuckin’ Hoo.
whenever I see those sparkly ~*~Misandry~*~ things and whatnot on tumblr I just got to think to myself
gosh dang it guys, the proper response to hate is never going to be hate!
you shouldn’t glamorize hatred! that’s terrible! Men don’t deserve hatred any more than women! it’s especially terrible because it’s reducing people to just their genders, when everyone is so much more than that!!generalizing groups in general is so dumb!!!
and what’s up with the passive-aggressive ‘kawaii’ sparkly banners and such? Can’t we all just sit down and at least talk this out maturely instead of resorting to name-calling and sarcasm?
I wish. But no.
As long as you have a group who benefits from the persecution, like women do, and a group whose death is irrelevant, like men, it’s going to next to impossible talk things out.
There is too much selfish interest in the status quo for misandrists and the 1% “Patriarchy” they claim to hate, but serve at every turn.
Makes a post about under appreciated mothers on FATHERS DAY and cries about being called on it.
Just pissed rn because i can’t even make a post about how motherhood is undersold and mothers are put to ridiculous standards and even when they meet them are still shat on or underappreciated, without people derailing and being dicks about it
if i make a post about how all mothers deserve free foot massages and backrubs at their local spa and you come running in like WHAT FATHERS DON’T DESERVE THAT TOO? or THAT’S NOT GOING TO SOLVE THE UNDERLYING ISSUES OF PATRIARCHY just no. just stop. that’s not what my post is about
why must my every action be “solving patriarchy?” why can’t i ever vent about patriarchy or dream about certain beautiful things that would be better than patriarchy
just get off my blog if you expect me to constantly walk on egg shells around men or take on the burden of ending patriarchy all by myself in a tumblr post
There is no such thing as PATRIARCHY. You can’t solve for it any more than can solve the Boogeyman or Easter bunny, because its a fiction designed to allow you to benefit from the oppression of lower class men.
I absolutely just don’t understand misogyny. All you people out there have a mother, a daughter, a sister, a niece, a wife, some woman in your life you love absolutely and irrevocably. But you’re willing to let her suffer. You’ll let her suffer through rape without any support cuz she was probably dressed wrong, because women have to dress a certain way in order to be accepted as proper. You’ll allow people to not pay her the same or deny her the same opportunities men get. Why is that? You love this woman. Act like you deserve to be a part of her life.
I absolutely don’t understand misandry. All you people out there have a father, a brother, a nephew, an uncle, some man out there that you love absolutely and irrevocably. But you’re willing to let him suffer through rape without any support cuz he’s a man and should be able to protect himself, because it’s absolutely impossible for a man to be weak or scared at any given moment. You’re willing to let people stereotype him as gay because he’s not as manly as he should be. Why is that? You love this man. Act like you deserve to be part of his life.
On freaking fathers day tumblr feminists manage to turn this site into a feminist critique with perpetuating the stupid, overly-done sexist trope that all mothers are good and all fathers are bad and “shoutouts to single mothers and shitty dads”.
All over my dash I’m seeing posts about shitty abusive dads. Because single fathers obviously aren’t a thing and deserve credit for the amazing work that they have done because no matter what gender you are raising a kid alone is fucking hard work but nope.
The brilliant misogyny engrained in tumblr feminism is the constant bombardment of the assumption that all women always the victims at the hands of men (we’re not) are the most un-empowering thing ever.
where was the shoutout to dads, where was the shoutout to the kids with shitty moms when it was mothers day? Hiding behind feminism’s skirt that’s where.
I’m 100% done with your hypocrisy, tumblr.
What I hear when random men on the street offer “compliments.”
“From what I can see—which probably isn’t much—you appear to fit a narrow, arbitrary standard of attractiveness. Consequently, I am at least marginally interested in fucking you, and feel that you must be informed of my interest, regardless of what you want or feel. Wait, do you feel? Is that a thing? Ladies feeling things?”
What pre-recovery me heard:
-Starve until they stop.
-This is all you’re worth.
What in-recovery me says:
-I will kill you dead.
Unjustified hate does not equal “recovery”.
You should sue your psychiatric team.
When radfems dogpile you by the dozens, desperate to knock you down, you know you’re doing things right.
To any reasonable person, an insult coming from a radfem should count as a compliment.