STFU-Misandrists

danyphantomzone:

erosum:

Feminist Frequency - Tropes vs. Women: #1 The Manic Pixie Dream Girl

I find this SLIGHTLY problematic…
Because it implies women don’t ever do that, don’t ever want to do that, won’t ever do that, won’t ever want to do that…
…which is unlikely, now that I think of it.

It is a wish-fulfillment fantasy, after all. But I think they’re supposed to be the exception to the rule that women don’t do these things.
The fact that these movies keep popping up and do so well… reflects some yearning on the male half of the public consciousness.
Perhaps unrealistic. They have issues/problems for which this is the imagined cure.

Men need to stop leaning on women to fulfill their emotional needs, no doubt…
…but I DO find likewise troublesome that, as far as I can tell… heterosexual women don’t seem to care about those needs, or are put off by them. Despite the fact that we all have them.
…and we essentially have to be f**king gurus that have let go of all emotional attachments in order to appear like “normal” without wants and needs other than moving up sociologically. (symbols of male wealth, power, status or the potential thereof are what’s considered “sexy” in a male… and emotional needs or eagerness to enter a relationship are definitely in conflict with those things.

It puts us in a double bind… where the more we obviously want the less likely we are to have… (Not one women seem to have as much… Guys WANT to be wanted. But then there’s the whole thing about women who pursue men being whores and whatnot… I think the stigma is easing, though.)
…but, imagine if the genders were reversed: It would be a movie about a fun, whitty, charming man courting a lonely girl… and I don’t think many feminists would object outside of the implication that women need men.
Interesting.

THINK ABOUT IT.

Boo fucking hoo…

The fact is… YOU WOMEN do rely on US MEN to fix the world.

You want stories where you’re not portrayed as the muse? Here is what you do.

GO AND DIE IN LARGE NUMBERS.

That’s what MEN have to do.

You get to live on the door jamb till help arrives after the Titanic sinks, and we get to freeze to death SO YOU CAN LIVE.

Until you change up THAT paradigm… YOU HAVE NO POINT!

Women do the cryin’ and Men do the dyin’.

destroythegop:

Also, too, if men had babies, every child would be an only child.

Because men are unfeeling disposable things, that care nothing for their children, or for their species. RIGHT?

Misandry is NEVER OK. Even when it seems like it’s on the right side.

The Birth Control issues are a CLASS struggle. The wealthy want more cheap disposable labor. As usual, women are PREFERRED by the elite and wealthy because they WILLINGLY submit to a male with enough resources to be dominant.

The GOP “War in Women” is STILL, ALWAYS WAS, AND ALWAYS WILL BE, a War to make non-elite MEN more DISPOSABLE!

did-you-kno:

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Bullshit. Men are disposable and NEVER seen as people.

Women do the Cryin’ and Men do the Dyin’.

how lazy do you have to fucking be to be a mens’ rights activist that’s like being a fucking breathing air activist

shishakabob:

stfu-misandrists:

quoms:

yobb:

thelittlestdrunk:

myyoutubefavourites:

It’s like breathing air, in Beijing on a bad day. Men commit suicide at higher numbers than women. Men die on the job more than women. Men are incarcerated more than women. Men are more likely to be homeless. Boys are suspended from school more than girls. Men often have to support a child they don’t want simply because they came inside a woman despite how the woman has the vast majority of birth control and anti-pregnancy methods at her disposal. On the other hand, women can choose to terminate pregnancies and the man who might even want the child is forced to comply with her decision. In some states men can be forced to pay more than 100% of their net income in child support and alimony. Women are more likely to be given custody of children. Women initiate the majority of divorces. Men have to register for the draft while women do not. Women continue to say that they are paid less than men despite how this isn’t true. Women rate the majority of men as “less than average”. Rape laws don’t classify female on male sexual assault as rape. Male circumcision is still given as an option to parents while female circumcision in is considered barbaric. Despite all of these things MRAs are considered to be sexist,hateful and lazy because they want to fix these issues. Women are considered to be empowering and brave when they walk half naked through streets in large numbers.

Further readings:

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/real-men-dont-write-blogs/201112/the-end-boys

http://harrisschool.uchicago.edu/about/publications/working-papers/pdf/wp_01_22.pdf

http://noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz.wordpress.com/2012/01/23/are-men-more-likely-to-be-homeless/

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzoNRiKDz2I

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/women-initiate-divorce-66-of-the-time-why-do-they-want-to-get-married-567068.html

http://youtu.be/hDn-VwgWuJs

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

OHJHMDMDMD I FIFN DIDN’T ACTUALLY READ ALL OF THIS BUT DO YOU SEE HIS SOURCES

OH MY GOD

“OKCUPID” A REAL ACADEMIC SOURCE

YAHOO

YOUTUBE

i’m sick of all this gender bullshit on tumblr and i generally try not to say anything about it but this has to be one of the dumbest things i’ve ever read

the greatest list of citations compiled in recent memory

Here we go again.

A women complains, it’s a national cause.

A man complains, “STFU YOU DISPOSABLE PUSSY!!!!”

Of course the sparse sources have NOTHING to do with the Fact that society doesn’t even all ow the subject of mens rights to be brought up. Naw…

“Sex and the City” teaches us that women have the right to choose between the billionaire and the millionaire artist.

To acknowledge the fact that 99% of men never become one of those things, and that those men are sentenced to a life of disposability would destroy the lying misandrist narrative that women are the only ones who suffer in society.

Hahahah. Except the Yahoo source is a news article with facts and stuff (crazy I know) and Youtube sources also provides a argument based on facts and logic. The okcupid source is telling of a general trend.

But let’s make fun of the sources and ignore that everything he/she states is right and continue that “haha men” “woe to me only I’m the victim” mentality. That’s the feminist way of fighting for equality.

I’m actually going to stand up for what man will perceive to be “the other side” and critique one thing. It’s NOT the feminist way. It’s the Misandrist ways.

Feminism is standing up for the rights of women when there is injustice. There is nothing wrong with feminism any more than there is menism…

Misandry is spreading hate and blame to men.

I make the distinction because I know many great feminists. Some who read my angry railing against feminism and answered with compassion while explaining their side.

Mainstream feminism may fall back on easy misandry, but if we are to get anywhere as a species we need to be open to anything that is not blame and hate, on either side of the gender line.

I don’t want to see “feminism” become a taboo word for women who feel that they are facing injustice because of their gender and need to voice it.

Call them out on what is WRONG with their argument, but we need to preserve, protect, and address what is right with it.

Otherwise we become the misogynists they’ve accused of being all along.

how lazy do you have to fucking be to be a mens’ rights activist that’s like being a fucking breathing air activist

quoms:

yobb:

thelittlestdrunk:

myyoutubefavourites:

It’s like breathing air, in Beijing on a bad day. Men commit suicide at higher numbers than women. Men die on the job more than women. Men are incarcerated more than women. Men are more likely to be homeless. Boys are suspended from school more than girls. Men often have to support a child they don’t want simply because they came inside a woman despite how the woman has the vast majority of birth control and anti-pregnancy methods at her disposal. On the other hand, women can choose to terminate pregnancies and the man who might even want the child is forced to comply with her decision. In some states men can be forced to pay more than 100% of their net income in child support and alimony. Women are more likely to be given custody of children. Women initiate the majority of divorces. Men have to register for the draft while women do not. Women continue to say that they are paid less than men despite how this isn’t true. Women rate the majority of men as “less than average”. Rape laws don’t classify female on male sexual assault as rape. Male circumcision is still given as an option to parents while female circumcision in is considered barbaric. Despite all of these things MRAs are considered to be sexist,hateful and lazy because they want to fix these issues. Women are considered to be empowering and brave when they walk half naked through streets in large numbers.

Further readings:

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/real-men-dont-write-blogs/201112/the-end-boys

http://harrisschool.uchicago.edu/about/publications/working-papers/pdf/wp_01_22.pdf

http://noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz.wordpress.com/2012/01/23/are-men-more-likely-to-be-homeless/

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzoNRiKDz2I

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/women-initiate-divorce-66-of-the-time-why-do-they-want-to-get-married-567068.html

http://youtu.be/hDn-VwgWuJs

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

OHJHMDMDMD I FIFN DIDN’T ACTUALLY READ ALL OF THIS BUT DO YOU SEE HIS SOURCES

OH MY GOD

“OKCUPID” A REAL ACADEMIC SOURCE

YAHOO

YOUTUBE

i’m sick of all this gender bullshit on tumblr and i generally try not to say anything about it but this has to be one of the dumbest things i’ve ever read

the greatest list of citations compiled in recent memory

Here we go again.

A women complains, it’s a national cause.

A man complains, “STFU YOU DISPOSABLE PUSSY!!!!”

Of course the sparse sources have NOTHING to do with the Fact that society doesn’t even all ow the subject of mens rights to be brought up. Naw…

“Sex and the City” teaches us that women have the right to choose between the billionaire and the millionaire artist.

To acknowledge the fact that 99% of men never become one of those things, and that those men are sentenced to a life of disposability would destroy the lying misandrist narrative that women are the only ones who suffer in society.

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timelordy-teganbreann:

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roxannameta:

kateordie:

briawesome:

fixed it.

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Speak it

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PREACH

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More misandrist lies.

As usual, it’s only a problem if it’s a problem for a women.

Women are born with worth and protected by society their entire lives.

Men are born worthless and must earn everything that will ever be attributed to them by combating each other and nature.

And let me be clear: NO!

thankyoubasedsantorum:

That woman had EVERY RIGHT to be offended for being mistaken for being a sex worker.

That has nothing to do with her feelings about sex work. That has everything to do with her experience as a Black woman. Black women, whether dressed to the gills or in the skimipest of clothing, from young to old, from light to dark, HAVE ALWAYS BEEN TREATED THIS WAY. If a dude tried to come for me on a street, I would be pissed. I’m not a sex worker, but you assume I am because I’m black. If I’m a black woman, then I’m a pussy on display for you to use.

Nah, been there, done that. I won’t live by that ideal anymore.

I know how that woman felt. I would be offended too. As someone who has been in used in that manner, I WOULD. BE. OFFENDED. TOO.

And that has little to do with your precious sex work.

Blah Blah Blah… even Black MEN don’t want Black women, and it has NOTHING to do with what you look like.

The only thing with a worse attitude than a Black Woman is an Irish Woman. You BOTH think you can bob your head and scream to make mens lives hell, and that magically makes you desirable. You’re simpletons that have, like so many others simpletons have confused your despicable attitude with everyones racial and feminist issues, and FEAR with RESPECT.

A women who is NOT a whore in her own head, finds the accusation of being one humorous and declines with such grace and dignity that the man who made the assumption feels ashamed.

YOU make that same man go away thanking god he didn’t stick his dick in “that”.

You dehumanize the whole human race with your bellowing.

Many men who harass women say their intent is to compliment them, but why do they usually not “compliment” women who are accompanied by other men and often only do it when a woman is alone? Why do they tend to object to other men “complimenting” their female significant other (if applicable), female friends, or female family members? Why do some men grow hostile and violent when women do not thank them and act flattered? Why do they feel compelled to compliment women at all? Rarely are they expecting a date. Many times they do not even wait to see a woman’s reaction as they fly by in their car or as they turn to start harassing the next woman. They are doing it to exert their power, to entertain their friends, to relieve boredom, or do demonstrate that they can evaluate a complete stranger to her face, just because she is a woman.

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Stop Street Harassment: Holly Kearl (via completelymoribund)

The thing that so many men need to understand is that women do not consider it a compliment when they are being harassed on the street. Women usually feel either embarrassed or terrified or a combination of the two. So stop fucking doing it.

(via sexytypewriter)

it’s so telling that men tend to do this when they’re in a group of other men. and i’ve never had it happen when i’m hanging out with dudes, especially not when i’m with my ginormous dad (most men don’t give a fuck about harassing me if i’m with my mom who is as small as i am). so if it isn’t sexual, or threatening, and you just want to ~make me smile~ then why can you only do it when i’m perceived as vulnerable?

(via hyper—ballad)

I would add that it rarely happens or when I am around men who know that I am dating someone at that time. Many men (certainly not all) are willing to lay off if they perceive that you are “owned” - otherwise, you’re public property, and they’re free to treat you however they like. Any competition that erupts is less to flatter the woman than to establish temporary rights to her, even if they must degrade her to do so.

(via desliz)

that or the nature of the so-called compliments will change if youre w a man. they will go from a respectful “you look beautiful this evening” when youre w a dude to some vulgar shit about your pussy, if youre alone. because youre not worthy of respect as just a woman.

(via baddominicana)

Do women purposefully NOT learn basic biology, or is it really the same cognitive disconnect that allows them to act without reason or accountability in every other circumstance of life?

Every mammal on the planet plays roughly the same mating game. We are all born roughly 50% male and 50% Female.

Females not only outlive males, but by as much much as double the males lifespan in most mammals. Why?

Because from the day you are born male, your job is to fight for resources and claim territory in order to reproduce. You life’s mission is to drive out or kill your other males so you have enough resources to become the alpha. Then you usually get several females to breed with you in exchange being on your land.

Females don’t have ANY of these problems. Females don’t have to engage in mortal combat from birth just for a chance to reproduce. They just have to be female, and pick a man with resources.

Why do we “harass/compliment” you?

Many species go into estrus. This is a CLEAR BIOLOGICAL SIGNAL that the female is ready and willig to mate.

Human have NO such clear signal when the female is ready to mate. We also have a society that has shifted from merely providing food and claiming territory, to one based almost entirely on communication.

This is why we have to “harass” women. As a species we are cut of from all the normal means of establishing our dominance over other mammalian males. Violence, intimidation, and territorialism, that would ordinarily send lesser males running don’t work in an urbanized culture of communication.

So we are basically left with running around and asking women if they want to reproduce. It has become the human manner of separating ourselves out from the rival males, because let’s face it. if there was a quite thoughtful guy in that car with that guy who called out to you… you don’t even know HE exists. Maybe the noisy jerks chances are one in a million… but thoughtful guy’s chances are absolute ZERO!

The key to gaining a mate in this human society is TALKING. Anything that starts a conversation increases our odds.

Why do we “harass” you mainly in groups?

Humans are also pack hunters. Well, human MALES are… since in this species it’s our job to provide the bulk of the resources for the females. That’s why thoughtful guy was in the car with alpha jerk. Better chances of getting seen.

Why don’t we “harass” you when other men are with you?

Simple. YOU ARE ANOTHER’S MALES TERRITORY! Instinct says we should try to drive him off or kill him. Society says that anything that even looks like that will get you stuck in isolation with no chance to reproduce.

The balance is to move on to a stray since the conflict is unwinable.

Why do we object to “harassment” of women with us?

Because some male is trying to drive us from OUR TERRITORY. OF COURSE YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND IT! You gender doesn’t HAVE this problem. Females never have to kill each other for territory, because the entirety of mammalian life on this planet has stuck that responsibility to the male.

Why do some men grow hostile and violent when women reject them?

Biology AGAIN. Since the male is responsible for all that fighting and dying in order to claim territory and resources SOLELY to get a mate… why would we allow a female who does not want to reproduce with us on our territory? Instinctually, you’re using up resources that could cost us our lives.

The sad fact is, the guys who DON’T act that way are the ones you will eventually “Nice Guy(TM)” or “Friendzone”.

Women need to accept the fact that these behaviors are all biological. If there is blame to placed, it’s WOMENKINDS fault. All mammals have one thing in common. The FEMALE controls the choice of mate. You have breed us into this behavior through natural selection.

All your complaints about patriarchy and male dominance are as much bullshit as any other “faith”. Science and evolution prove the opposite. Even Economics says you are the dominant ones. 85% of every dollar spent is based on the decision of a woman.

I know all you misandrists will call simply attack me for telling you the truth, because being a woman means living without reason or accountability.

Like Republicans, no amount of facts will dissuade you from what you “feel” is right.

But in the REAL world, where science and history keep a record, the truth will always be what it is no matter how you “feel” about it.

Welcome to equality, baby. No one has EVER given a shit about how MEN feel. Just like us, you get the worlds harsh answer of “DEAL WITH IT!”

Women to the cryin’ and Men do the dyin’.

Sure. If you’re a rich man, like Dominique Strauss-Kahn.

If you a poor white male in this country you have NO rights. Not even the right to complain about the infinite double standards women apply to the disposable male.

Women do the cryin’ and men do the dyin’.

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